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Rebekah at the wellIt’s amazing how, when placed against the light of Jewish practices, the teachings of our Lord Jesus Christ and even the Apostles as recorded in Scripture can oftentimes leap out and give us a new understanding. Case in point: remember when you first understood how the Passover (Pesach) is a foreshadow of how Christ Jesus will be the Passover Lamb whose blood will be shed so that God’s wrath will pass over those who believe on Him, it felt like a revelation, didn’t it?

I’ve been reading a few interesting articles on the Jewish betrothal, and it was amazing how I was seeing some teachings of our Lord Jesus Christ in a wonderful, new light!

Before a Jewish marriage is completed, there’s the betrothal which, in Jesus’ time, was essentially a marriage covenant where the bridegroom would take the initiative to travel from his father’s house to the home of the prospective bride and negotiate with the bride’s father a price that he’ll need to pay for his bride.

Once a price was agreed upon and when the bridegroom has fully paid the price, a marriage covenant was established. By this time, the man and woman were regarded as husband and wife, but had to live apart for yet a season. The woman would be declared to be set apart, or sanctified, for her groom from then on. The couple will also drink from a common cup of wine over which the betrothal benediction had been pronounced to signify the covenant.

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I am not going to pretend to be all macho and manly — my wife and some of my closest friends know that I am a softie and some things do make me buckets, but I suppress and hold it back rather well most times, especially in public. And, perhaps like most men, I’d (try to) crack a lame joke to cover the tracks.

Oops, I am digressing…

When I read what my good brother, S.J. Walker, wrote for his marriage vow, it blew me away. It’s beautiful, Biblical and yes, it made my eyes moist. That’s the essence of a Christian marriage as God intends it to be — being a mirror of Jesus’ love for His Bride, the Church!

Thank you for sharing it, brother, and giving me the permission to share it with others as well. Much love and blessings to you and Beth!

My Vows

Given to My Bride at Our Wedding
Copyright 2006: S.J. Walker; All Rights Reserved

As God is my witness,
I promise, that I will love you my whole life,
you and no other.
I promise, that only God will come before you.
As we become one flesh, I promise
that I will love you as my own body,
“For no man ever hated his own flesh
but nourishes and carefully protects
and cherishes it, as Christ does the Church”.
I promise, that I will protect you–
even give my very life for you.

Read the rest of the vow at S.J’s blog.

The Prodigal SonThe parable of the Prodigal Son is perhaps the most loved parable of Jesus Christ among many Christians, and probably the most told as well.

Why the popularity, so to speak? For one, it speaks volumes of God’s love for us sinners.

Secondly, most of us see ourselves in the prodigal son that returned to his father expecting the worst, but have found love, acceptance and comfort in the arms of our loving and holy Heavenly Father.

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Happy 10th Anniversary, dear!It’s quite an amazing thing to wake up one day, look at your spouse, and realize that both of you have been married for 10 years.

Because when you think about it, 10 years is a long time, isn’t it?

There we were, young ‘kids’ fresh out of school for no more than three years or so (I was 27, and she 24), committing to each other for life on 19 December 1997 not knowing much about the journey we’d undertake together.

Looking back on the past decade, we’ve had our share of fights, difficulties, disappointments, joys, and triumphs. Along the way, we bought our own abode, tried to have a child (without success, fortunately in some ways but that’s another story), and most importantly, learned what marriage really means and entails.

And after all these years, it’s still amazing that we still possess those little qualities that spice up our daily lives, like how we still have that spark, that ‘psychic’ connection with each other, and all those little weird and idiosyncratic things we do that identifies us as a married couple indeed.

Above all, we thank God that we still love each other deeply and are able to do so because of His mercy and grace.

With lots and loads and oodles and tons of love…

Happy 10th Anniversary, babe!

Photo by WTLphoto.

Chinese Character for FamilyIt has been a really busy week at work and I do apologize for the lack of updates to the blog. And I must also apologize if I haven’t visited some of your blogs till recently because of the hectic schedule.

Being quite occupied with work doesn’t mean I haven’t got things whirling in my head on what the Christian life is and one of the things that spoke most to me this week was God’s plan for the family, which I shall share with you today.

Do you ever wonder why God made man and woman and ordained the institution of marriage, along with the commission to be fruitful and multiply, i.e. have children?

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