Acknowledging God’s Sovereignty In Times of Grief

by Isaiah on October 2, 2008

I first heard this account recounted on Way of the Master Radio and it made my eyes moist.

On September 16, 2008, the night was clear and dry when Preston Newby and his wife, Tara traveled along I-5 in Washington State. Suddenly, traffic became chaotic, stopping and swerving so they wouldn’t hit a mighty elk that lay in the middle of the interstate. Along the side of the road was a banged up car with a smashed window.

Preston Newby, 24, a recent alumni of a Portland area Bible college, and Youth Pastor at Lake Bible Church in Lake Oswego, Oregon, knew he had to stop and help whoever was in the car that everyone else was leaving behind. Telling Tara they had to stop, she already knew he would dash to help. It’s who he was, and what he did. There’s no way that he would leave some one behind that might have needed assistance.

When Preston looked in the car, he found a 16-year-old driver who appeared to be injured from hitting the majestic animal. Tara watched as her husband followed the calling of God as he checked on the driver and called 911. Something made her look away at the very moment a car veered from hitting the elk, and instead hit her husband. It’s “by the grace of God” she says, that she didn’t actually see him struck.

What she did see was her husband lying in the road. Tara ran to him, and held him as she screamed to God to save his life. Together in Preston’s last moments, the two of them held each other, prayed together, and Tara sang to him to try and ease the horror that seemed to be swallowing them whole. Preston did not survive the impact of the car that hit him.

Everyone who knew him says that he could light up the room, and that he had a way about him that made people want to be around him. He had knowledge of the Lord that seemed far beyond his years. Tara says, “He had this laugh that was just contagious”.

After the series of events that took the life of her husband, Tara’s faith is holding strong. She doesn’t blame the driver of the car that took Preston’s life at all. As a matter of fact, she has forgiven that driver completely. She also isn’t harboring any resentment towards God. She believes that her husband died serving the Lord, and she will continue his legacy.

The love of God doesn’t dwell solely in the walls of the church, and is not bound by rules, but lies within the souls of his followers, and through Him, we find strength. While Preston was here, he spread the word of God, and through his death, he will continue to touch lives.

Preston Newby is survived by his wife, Tara, their 16-month-old son, Jacob, and Tara is ten weeks pregnant with their second child.

What’s more amazing is this account1 given on the same station, featured below:

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If you’d like to send Tara your condolences, support and encouragement, you can visit her blog to do so.

1 Hour 1, Way of the Master Radio, 25 Sep 2008.

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{ 3 comments… read them below or add one }

Mulled Vine October 2, 2008 at 11:39

I have no problem with acknowledging God’s sovereignty in suffering, but do have a problem with the often trite rationalisations of that suffering by well meaning Christians.

Robert

Doggy Poo October 2, 2008 at 14:15

I am in no position to comment on this :-S

But what I can say is, “Amazing grace!”

And Tara’s testimony is the embodiment of such grace. Don’t such testimonies put our “theological ducks” to shame?

Valerie Lynn October 2, 2008 at 23:15

What a beautiful story. Although the young man was taken away at an early age he is at home with his Lord and Savior. This should be a message to everyone that tomorrow is not promised to anyone.

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