I agree with a particular pastor (can’t remember offhand who now) who said that while techniques and all in the bedroom can be worked on, intimacy between a couple starts with having a right relationship with God and actually seeing the marriage as a representation of Christ and His Church.

Thank you for dropping by and the encouragement!

I typed an earlier message to you, but lost it in the editing phase due to my own error.

Ditto what most everyone else has stated here, but mostly I wanted to say hello and the new site looks great. Much love and respect to you for the work you’re carrying on here.

Love in Messiah,

Free

I have no problem with Christian couples getting help for sexual issues from qualified Christian professionals, but I cannot for one moment condone anything remotely resembling “Christian Porn.”

I agree with you. We must recognize that there are Christian couples out there who face issues in the marriage bed but they need to get help from their local pastor and elders instead of enlisting the help of worldly counselors or *GASP!* ‘Christian pornography’. The point you made about not allowing pornography in as if it’s a third person in the marriage bed is a very, very good point!

Wow, I can just feel the love for you oozing out from that blog.

I read that article you linked, and wished I didn’t because it just made me sick to the stomach! That person should be a performer that twists those tube balloons into various shapes — he’s already very good at it doing the same on Scripture!

When you start making concessions, people, you should know the Devil has found a wedge.

Well said, LaVrai, and AMEN!

I totally agree with you — time is short for the devil and he’s getting really desperate. It’ll get more difficult to get the Truth out as even a majority of Christians succumb to the falsehoods and silence all that warn by calling us unloving, Jezebels and worse names.

Great to see you again, sister.

You’re right, many Christians will actually accept this nonsense unfortunately. We are in the days of the great falling away. It’s my personal opinion that things won’t get better, only worse and we’ll see more and more heresies crop up and the Truth suppressed and twisted.

Thank you very much for the kind words and encouragement!

On a serious note, I totally agree with you. Open communication is key as both my wife and I have learned in our decade of marriage. A wise old couple in church once told me that instead of the relationship going stale, a strong Christian marriage is like aged wine — delicious.

They also advised that when intimacy is also present in other areas of a couple’s life, achieved when both husband and wife love each other as God has taught us to, there’s no need to fret about issues in the bedroom that the world cares about, e.g. performance. We’ve found that to be very true.